Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Christmas in España

Seeing as I spent my Thanksgiving very homesick, I only assumed that Christmas would be much harder on me.  Especially considering I had never spent a Christmas away from my family.  I would say that the days leading up the Christmas were filled with much more melancholy than Christmas itself.  I would be walking around the city and admiring the holiday lights or see a sign for Christmas sales and feel a ping of sadness in my heart for being so far away from all my loved ones.

Christmas celebrations started the week of Christmas in my classes.  Starting Tuesday, the 21st my classes were working on Christmas vocabulary, doing holiday crosswords and even singing Christmas carols along to audio cds my professors had prepared.  I decided I wanted to bake cookies for my classes.  Christmas at my house is always a time for baking a ton of different types of cookies, then freezing them and setting them out on Christmas Eve to enjoy with the family.  So I found a few recipes online for chocolate chip cookies, sugar cookies and peanut butter blossoms.  The main obstacle was finding all the ingredients.  I had no such luck finding baking powder or vanilla extract for example so had to make a trip to the American Store off of the metro stop Islas Filipinas on Paseo de San Francisco.  After spending about 30 euro I had everything I needed, including hersheys kisses, powered sugar, vanilla extrachen was impressive- especially for someone like me who lacks the basic skills to cook.
ct, cookie cutters, light corn syrup and brown sugar.  Tuesday afternoon around 4pm I started the task of baking about 90 cookies in my apartment.  My first batch of sugar cookie dough was an utter fail.  I had tried to substitute baking soda for baking powder and my cookie dough resembled bread dough.  After only a few minutes in the oven the middles of the cookies were still raw and the bottoms were black.  I threw all the dough away, searched online for a sugar cookie recipe with baking soda instead of baking powder and tried again.  This time I had success.  Unfortunately for me, the recipe called for four cups of flour so there was so much dough to work with.  I was rolling out dough with a glass cup (since we had no rolling pin) and then using my star, ornament and present-shaped cookie cutters to create tray after tray of cookies.  I think with that recipe alone I made about 70, decent-sized sugar cookies.  I also made some peanut butter blossoms which turned out slightly more greasy and doughy than I had planned but were still tasty.  After the sugar cookies were done cooling I whipped up some very expensive frosting (a bag of two cups of powdered sugar was almost 7€ which equals over $9 USD).  The finished product after about 5 hours in the kitchen was impressive, especially for someone like me who lacks the basic skills to cook.





Wednesday I overslept and was about two minutes late to my first class.  The 4th grade students were happy to see me and also looked curious as to what I might be hiding in the bag I had brought to class.  We worked on some Christmas vocabulary and crosswords and at the end of class I gave them each a sugar cookie.  Everyone had smiles on their faces which was the only thing I had really hoped for.  The class following this was a 5th grade class with a professor named Mario.  We spent the entire class trying to sing "On the Twelve Days of Christmas."  The students particularly had a hard time saying "Seven Swans a-swimming" and "Eleven Pipers piping."  Eleven pipers piping sounded like "eleven peepers peeping."  After going through the vocabulary in the song, listening to the audio recording of it and then practicing it a few times we finally were successfully able to sing it all the way through.  These kids got to try my peanut butter blossom cookies.  Some of the students looked nervous to try them since they are so oddly-shaped and with the hershey kiss on top but they all seemed to enjoy them.  Some of the professors even got to sample a few of the cookies and finally 6th period, my last class of the day, the most wild group of kids I've ever encountered: 4th graders group C.  We sang carols the whole class and then the kids were rewarded for participating in the songs by my sugar cookies.  This class seemed the most excited about receiving a treat from me and even asked me for the recipe!  

Thursday was the last day of class before winter break for the students and the staff.  Students came to school for the first two periods and then were given their report cards and then could either stay and watch the school concert- which consisted of ONE student band, or they could go home.  There were probably only 50 people that stayed to watch this concert and many were staff or family of the students in the band.  The band of high schoolers, three boys, played a number of American songs by ACDC and the Foo Fighters for example but none of us could really tell they were these songs because it sounded so horrible.  I feel bad saying this but sitting through six songs was enough to give me a headache.  I couldn't even in all honesty tell whether it was english or spanish that they were singing in, and neither could the other teachers.  After every song a few more people would leave the gym.  The poor band sure didn't have much of an audience at the end but they seemed to have at least enjoyed themselves.

Following the concert was the staff Christmas party in one of the meeting rooms at 2pm.  It was much more exciting and drawn out than I thought it would be.  There was bread, cheese, olives, pickled artichokes, salmon, ham (of course), sardines and chips.  In addition there was a TON of alcohol.  Me and the other teaching assistant soon realized that our fellow staff sure liked to have a good time.  There was red and white wine, alcoholic cider, champagne, port wine, beer, sparkling wine and soda.  Some of the professors even lit up their cigarettes in the room which I had thought was not allowed (smoking on school grounds).  We sang Christmas carols in spanish and chatted and chatted for a total of about 3 and a half hours and ended the party with some delicious cake.  The sun was starting to set by the time we got on the metro train.  It was a lot of fun though and a happy way to start my holiday.

Dessert at the party- a type of moist cake.

Friday, Christmas Eve I woke up and went to the Christmas market in Plaza Mayor which is in the center of Madrid.  There were many festivities going on such as Micky Mouse walking around and handing out balloon animals, a merry-go-round and people trying to sell those annoying pieces that you put in your mouth to make every noise from your mouth sound like a series of squeaks.  I just walked around and watched all the happy families and children and took some pictures of the festivities.  I didn't buy anything but was very tempted by the displays of lights and Christmas trees.  Had I come a few weeks prior I might have bought some.  Though it hardly seemed worth it at this point since it was already the day before Christmas.



This is what Christmas trees look like in Spain (pretty pathetic if you ask me)



Having Nativity Scenes are much more popular than trees

After the market I headed to Corte de Ingles which is essentially a huge department store.  There are multiple locations of Corte de Ingles' in Madrid but they all seem to have a grocery store on the bottom level.  It's the best place for Americans to come in search of familiar foods since they often carry a wider selection of about everything.  I bought some necessities- things that I haven't seen at any other grocery stores- bacon, free-range eggs and Tropicana orange juice NOT FROM CONCENTRATE!!!!  Orange juice does happen to be popular here but its the non-refrigerated type that is full of sugar.  I was in desperate need of real OJ that was not from concentrate.  I took the metro ride back to my apartment and spent the rest of the afternoon relaxing and talking to my family and boyfriend on Skype.  I then had to get ready around about 7pm because the Metro happened to have limited hours on Christmas Eve.  I needed to get back to the center for "La Misa de Gallo" (literally translated: the rooster mass), which is the midnight Christmas Eve mass.  I definitely wanted to experience a Catholic mass here in Madrid and especially on a big holiday like Christmas Eve.  I arrived in the center at 10pm (two hours before the mass since the metro closed at 10pm).  I met my fellow teaching assistant at my school and we walked around the desolate and freezing streets of Madrid, admiring the lights until the Church of San Isidro FINALLY opened a half an hour before the service started.  





The church was beautiful.  Though it was the alternate mass location since the Almudena Cathedral was currently under construction.  The congregation, not to my surprise, appeared to be many other foreigners like us.  The service started around midnight and as a Catholic I didn't really know what to expect, even though it was a Catholic service.  It was very similar to a service in the US except for the minor detail that everything was in Spanish.  There also happened to be many priests (about 6-7 on each side of the alter facing the main presiding priest).  The other main difference occurred after the sacrament of communion when the priest took a baby Jesus doll from the Nativity Scene on the alter, blessed it and then each of the priests proceeded to kiss the doll.  The doll was then brought down to the congregation, similar to the way communion had and people got in a line and each kissed the baby Jesus.  Seemed slightly odd and very unsanitary but interesting nonetheless.


The beautiful choir on the balcony

The baby Jesus in the center is the one everyone kissed.


After the mass we had about an hour to burn before my night bus came to Gran Vía.  Normally it runs about every 20 minutes but on Christmas Eve there was a bus only every 90 minutes.  So since I had no chance of catching the 1am bus I had to wait until 2:30am to catch the next one.  We walked near Puerta del Sol where this is this wonderful Chocoletería named San Gines that happens to be open 24-hours a day.  Truly a life-saver since it was not only shelter from the cold but a wonderful place to sit down and enjoy some churros, porras, coffee or hot melted chocolate.  Casey and I each got a porra and a mug of hot melted chocolate to dip it in.  Delicious!  Churros or porras (which are just like churros but larger) are like greasy donuts that you dip in hot melted chocolate.  It's a specialty of Spain!

I was very tired by the time I got home but knew I had just experienced by first Christmas Eve abroad and alone but that I had enjoyed myself.  

The next morning I finally pulled myself out of bed around 11am.  I wouldn't have slept so late had I not gotten home at 3:30 in the morning.  My roommates seemed to all have left by the time I made it to the kitchen.  I was attending a Christmas lunch with some Americans not far from where I live but I was supposed to bring a dessert so I had to not only get ready and eat breakfast, but also make a dessert and get to my friend's apartment by 3pm.  So I mixed up some dough for cookies- AGAIN but this time to make chocolate chip cookies.  It's very hard to find chocolate chips here and if you do they are usually a fortune so all the Americans I know just buy a bar of chocolate and cut it up into pieces which is exactly what I had to do.  Not after long I was sitting in the kitchen with a fresh batch of chocolate chip cookies and enjoying some scrambled eggs, bacon and fresh Tropicana Orange juice.  I was in heaven.



I got a little lost wondering the streets of my friend's neighborhood but I arrived in "spanish time" which was about 20 minutes late.  Lunch was already ready, it was prepared by my friend's roommate Wally who loves to cook.  He made us a wonderful meal.  I really wish I had taken some pictures because not only was it very delicious but it also looked wonderful.  We started off with a typical spanish soup.  There was chick peas in it, some ham and some roast beef.  Then we had the main course which was a cabbage salad with peas and red bell pepper, a seasoned chicken breast, red potatoes, more ham (or sausage) and some mashed potatoes made by our girl from IDAHO!  My friend Lindsay made some sangria for us as well.  It was such a spectacularly amazing meal with some Christmas music playing in the background and some lively conversation.  We all ate way too much but were completely satisfied at the end.  We finished the meal with my cookies, wine and cider.  Then proceeded to converse for the next four-five hours until we decided to go out to the center since we heard it was the "it" night to hit the town in Madrid: Christmas day night.

We made it to the Metro around 9:30pm since we weren't sure if the train had limited hours again like the night before.  In the Metro we saw the first indication of "spaniards gone wild" with a young man passed out on a bench near the platform of the metro.  This was even before 10pm.  


We went to a few bars in the center but I was so tired from being out late the night before that I ended up leaving my friends around 1am to head back to my bed.  It was a very chilly night, or so I thought.  I later found out that at 2am, when so many of us were complaining about HOW freezing it was, it was actually 28 degrees Fahrenheit.  I seem to have lost my tolerance for cold, or merely just become accustomed to a winter in Madrid rather than a winter in MN.

I went to bed Christmas night content.  I spent the holidays with good company, met some new people, enjoyed some wonderful food and when all was said and done, hardly felt homesick in the least.  I hope this is the last holiday that I spend away from my loved ones but I surely will remember this holiday for the rest of my life- the Holiday season that I spent abroad in España.  













Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Oh Happy Day!!!

In an effort to soothe the pain of possibly never receiving the original care package my parents sent, they sent me not one but TWO christmas packages.  This time they had them sent to my apartment which turned out perfectly.  I was in my room taking a siesta and my roommate came home from work and left my two packages on the kitchen table.  I had no idea they were (1) going to be sent to my apartment and not my school, or (2) that they would arrive so quickly!  I went into the kitchen to get a glass of water around 8:30pm and there they were sitting on the kitchen table.  Such a wonderful surprise!!!!
The contents of my two packages (minus two magazines not included in photo)

The best part about receiving the package was not expecting it would come so soon and without any problems (unlike the first, mostly likely lost package).

The contents of the package:

-Sour patch kids
-Orbit gum
-SWEET TARTS 
-Herseys Miniatures
-Herseys chocolate bar
-Hersheys cookies 'n' creme
-Reeses
-Animal crackers
-How to Lose a guy in 10 days dvd
-Overboard dvd
-Thelma and Louise dvd
-EVER AFTER dvd
-two beautiful Christmas cards
-Emily's dark chocolate peppermint fortune cookies
-TWO boxes of Kraft mac 'n' cheese
-People magazine (not shown)
-USA Today magazine (not shown)

In addition to receiving these WONDERFUL packages this evening I also had a nice and unexpected surprise from three of my female students today.  They are all 11 yrs. old and in one of my 4th grade classes (1˚ ESO).  They stopped me in the hallway and said they had something for me!  One pulled this out of her school binder:

The students names are Yashira, Carla, and Yamilet

Yashira wrote, "I love you, my favourite teacher, never let you get de parte de: Yashira"  (spanglish at the end)

Carla wrote, "Merry Christmas Emily, your my favorite teacher and I love you"

Yamilet wrote, "Never say never.  Happy NEW YEAR and Merry Christmas.  I ♥ U!"

Today I am reminded of all the things I am truly thankful for, most importantly my family but also the opportunity to be abroad and teach my native language to Spanish children who are grateful to have me be part of their educational experience :)

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Breakthrough

Somewhere between this past weekend and today I had a breakthrough.  I woke up this morning and realized I wasn't having a hard time anymore.  It wasn't necessarily caused by something I, myself, did.  It was simply a matter of me finally emotionally settling into my new surroundings.  I woke up feeling refreshed and comfortable with living in a foreign county.  I realized that I had a routine without even knowing it.  Easy tasks such as pulling out my Abono (metro pass) and walking confidently through the school gates had made me feel not only comfortable but empowered.  Instead of worrying about every little thing going wrong while abroad I had mentally taken a deep breath and exhaled.  I felt free today.  I felt like I was walking on air and nothing, (not even the fact that I still haven't received my parent's package that was sent a MONTH ago) was going to get in the way of me feeling content and happy.  A month ago you couldn't have said a single thing to convince me that things would eventually start to look up.  However, today I finally realized that there wasn't going to be some huge event that would suddenly make me change how I was feeling, I simply needed to change my attitude.  And somehow, without me even knowing, my attitude had changed itself.

This is how I feel today (taken in 2008 in San Sebastián, Spain)


I know that every day I won't feel confident with my decision to put my American life on hold to move to a foreign country, but I know that with the opportunity I was given I will try my hardest to make the best of this experience.  Therefore, so when it's all said and done and I have returned back to the U.S. I will look fondly on my second adventure in Spain and feel lucky to have simply gotten the chance to teach abroad.

"Today I know that I cannot control the ocean tides.  I can only 
go with the flow. . . . When I struggle and try to organize the Atlantic 
to my specifications, I sink.  If I flail and thrash and growl and grumble,
 I go under.  But, if I let go and float, I am borne aloft." -Marie Stilkind


Wednesday, December 8, 2010

EL PUENTE

Here in Spain there are federal holidays for everything.  Spaniards will make just about any excuse for a "festivo." I've been here for about a month and a half and so far I have had off about five days for different holidays.  I couldn't even in all honesty tell you what all the holidays were either because I simply don't remember.  It's not like the US where the holidays are generally well-known: Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, the 4th of July.  The holidays here can be anything from celebrating a patron saint to the creation of a constitution. During holidays in Spain the only things that are open are generally Chino stores (convenience stores run by Chinese people) or restaurants and bars.  So for example if you need to go to the grocery store, post office or library you will have no such luck because they will all be closed.  In addition to the actual day that IS the holiday- Spain will add the day before or after as an additional holiday and call it a "puente" (bridge).  This past holiday was a puente because I believe today was the actual holiday but the weekend was "bridged" into a longer weekend.  So instead of simply having off Wednesday, Spaniards took off Monday and Tuesday as well.  This left an extremely long and random holiday of Saturday-Wednesday.  The working life here in Spain sure is rough!

So I spent the majority of my puente here in Madrid.  Sunday I was able to go back to the amazing city of Toledo with two of my new friends from the UK.  Two years ago I spent six months in this wonderful city studying abroad.  I lived in El Casco which is the "old" part of the city with all the real history.  Coming back to Toledo brought back many fond memories of my last time abroad.  And even though it was rainy, cloudy and cold I was still so in love with the city.  You can almost physically feel how much history this city has simply by walking down it's narrow cobblestone streets.  In addition, the view of the rolling terrain from across the Rio Tajo is spectacular!  I plan on going back there several more times before I leave Spain.  If there is one city in Spain that I would recommend visiting it is Toledo.  Regardless of it's small size it is truly very beautiful and I feel so lucky to have been able to live there at one point in my life!
outside the stone walls of "El Casco."  Notice
the unlit Christmas tree in the center of the roundabout

unfortunately the only picture I got standing outside the walls.  
I'm smirking and Anni's eyes are closed!


So beautiful!

Monday I spent resting in my apartment.  I went outside once in search of food and only found one store open- a chino store.  I was able to find food inside- not healthy food though.  Tuesday evening I went to the center of Madrid with some of my friends to go to an intercambio (language exchange) at a bar called O'Neills.  My friends and I met up around 10pm and since everyone in Spain was on the "puente" there were more people than usual roaming the streets and admiring the Christmas lights.
Christmas tree in La Puerta del Sól in the center of Madrid

Inside the Christmas tree!

holiday lights

Anni and I at O'Neills on intercambio night

It's back to school tomorrow after a six day break!  However, since I only work Mondays through Thursdays here it will be another very easy work-week followed by another long weekend.

A little side note:  Here is a song I re-discovered the day I visited Toledo.  I remember hearing it back when I studied abroad and loving it but never knowing what it was called.  I finally figured it out!  It's a group called Macaco and they are from Spain.  




Friday, December 3, 2010

Los Correos/The Post (angry post)

In the hustle and bustle of last-minute packing the morning I was leaving for Spain I decided to reduce the weight of my suitcase because it was just too heavy.  So I started to take things out that I didn't think I would need.  For example I had packed two pairs of sneakers so I took out pair.  They were both converse sneakers but one was a high-top pair and the other a low-top pair.  I somehow managed to take out one shoe from each pair and didn't realize this UNTIL I arrived in Madrid.  Not only this but both shoes were the left foot so I couldn't even pull off wearing them!  So the first thing I did was email my parents and ask them if they could send me the right foot of each shoe so that I would have more than heels, running shoes and a pair of flats to work with.  Little did I know that boot season in Spain starts in like September even though it was in the 70s well into October.  Upon arriving I didn't have much money at all.  I had money to fund living expenses for a month until I was paid and money for a deposit and first month at an apartment.  I literally had no extra money for shopping.  So I wasn't able to just go out and buy a pair of shoes or a pair of boots.


My parents sent out a package for me with various items, the two right feet of my converse sneakers, an extra sweatshirt, a few dvds, a picture of me and my sisters, candy and kraft mac 'n' cheese and vanilla extract (because it's extremely hard to find vanilla extract in Spain).  They sent the package out over three weeks ago- they waited until I found and moved into my apartment.  They had the package insured and certified and the USPS told them it would take 6-10 days for me to receive it.  I had them send the package to my school because I had heard of nightmares of people not being home when their package was delivered and going around to multiple post offices to try and track down their package.  I was told it was easiest to have it sent to the school because this would be less likely to happen.

So anyways, here I am on December 3rd and no news on my package.  My parents seem to have misplaced the tracking number so have contacted a 1-800 post office number and will be figuring out this weekend WHERE my package is.  I tried going to the nearest post office to my school (because this is where it would be if it had failed to be delivered to me at the school) and they wouldn't even attempt to look for it without a tracking number.  I haven't been this frustrated over something in a long time.  I mean I figure it probably took 1-3 days for the US to deliver it to Madrid and that at this point Madrid is just taking their sweet time delivering it to me.  Here in Spain they have no concept of doing things efficiently or in a timely matter.  It's always "manaña, manaña" (tomorrow, tomorrow).  I suppose being an American I just don't understand how a country can be so inefficient and take SO long to do things.  I mean I am being serious when I say that it takes about 5x longer to do anything here than it does in the US.

So at this point I am simply crossing my fingers that the package wasn't lost and that at some point I will receive it.  Who knows how much longer I will have to wait?  And I am sure after this experience my parents won't want to send me any other packages while I am abroad- and honestly I don't blame them.

Health Insurance (angry post)

Through the Auxiliares de Conversación program I am provided health insurance through a company called Mapfre Familiar while in Spain.  When I arrived, my school was supposed to have received a packet about my health insurance information and my card.  However, they never did because a week into my stay in Spain they asked me for a copy of my insurance card and I said I didn't have one yet and that I had been told my school was supposed to receive the card.  That week I had made a trip to the Consejería de Educación (part of the Global Ministry of Education in Spain that funds the program that I am in) to drop of documents concerning my NIE (temporary residence card).  The lady that I spoke with told me that my school should be receiving my medical card but in the meantime if I had any medical emergencies she gave me a number to call that would be able to help me.

Fast forward to two weeks ago when my school finally receives my medical insurance packet.  They are sent an email detailing my account number and the directions are for ME to call them and give them the number in the email and confirm my address.  So I call them and granted my spanish is still rusty I am told that they don't have my medical card- that supposedly it was already send on Nov.3rd to my school.  What?  So I go back to my school and tell this to José María, the director of the English Dept. that handles everything dealing with the auxiliares de conversación in our school.  He calls the insurance himself and finds out that I was right- they did send the medical card to the school but the school never received it.  So he tells them to send ANOTHER card but this time to my apartment address.

Fast forward to yesterday.  I check my mailbox and there is mail addressed to me!  I open it to find about four sheets of paper from the medical insurance company and no card.  The sheets of paper with info regarding my policy are sheets that I already have that I already received with my information packet.

So six weeks into being in Spain and I still don't have an official medical card.  I can only imagine how José María is going to respond to this next week when I tell him.